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This Is Your Quest - The Director's Cut

Every now and then I remember that I once wrote a book... Not an ebook. Not a "How -to -Change -Your -Life -in -a Week" kind of book. A proper, honest-to-goodness, nearly 300-page book titled: " This Is Your Quest ." Sometimes I pick it up from the shelf, flick through the pages, and think: " This i

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Sneak Peek - The Reed Manga Series- Get Ready for Season 4!

🗣️ We Need to Talk. (And no, it’s not what you think... or maybe it is. 👀) Season 4 of The Reed Manga Series will drop soon🎬—and this time, we’re diving into something we all face but rarely get taught: how to have difficult conversations. Most of us grew up learning to either avoid them 😶‍🌫️ o

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2025 The Year of the Alternatives

🎥✨ Hey everyone! I’m thrilled to share that LinkedIn's Editor invited me to join the #BigIdeas2025 Challenge 🌟 What an incredible opportunity to connect and share Big Ideas. Today, I am dropping another video to share with you my predictions for 2025! 📺 As we step into 2025, a transformative year

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Protecting Free Speech While Ensuring Public Decorum

The Concept of Free Speech Free speech is a fundamental right in democratic societies. It allows individuals to express their thoughts, beliefs, and opinions without fear of censorship or punishment. Free speech is crucial for progress, challenging ideas, and fostering debate. Without it, societies

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The Reed Manga Series - Episode 2 - Part 1 - Find Your Purpose

Find your purpose. One of the greatest Quests we embark upon is the pursuit of Purpose. It's a journey that often feels like groping in the dark, searching for that elusive spark that sets our souls ablaze. Yet, finding your Purpose isn't about stumbling upon a hidden treasure; it's about deliberate

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The Lost Art of Listening Without Prejudice

In today’s fast-paced world, where opinions are formed in seconds and judgments are made swiftly, the art of listening without prejudice seems to be fading into obscurity. We live in an era dominated by constant distractions, where the cacophony of social media, news cycles, and personal biases ofte

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All You Need Is Love. Is This True? Maybe Not...

Love Explained Through Citations – Part 1 All you need is love. Love is all you need. Is this true? Maybe not... Valentine’s Day is not far away and soon anything to do with love will take center stage giving people the perfect day to express their enduring love for one another; for me it is a good

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Self-awareness Is Key. Stop Lying to Yourself.

Self-awareness is key to everything you do in your life on a personal and professional level. Self-awareness is defined as “ the ability to accurately assess one’s strengths and limitations, with a well-grounded sense of confidence, optimism, and a growth mindset .” Being self-aware means that you h

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Coming Out Of My Chrysalis!

Dear Readers and Followers, I was on radio silence for a little while, but I am back! I am coming out of my chrysalis. I was busy working on different things, different projects. I was busy contemplating and observing the world and human nature. I spent time surrounded by friends and family on my be

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When To Follow The Rules and When To Break Them

Rules are a necessity. Without rules there is chaos. But when rules are becoming too rigid it can create another type of chaos also known as tyranny. Knowing when to follow the rules and when to break them (without turning yourself into a wanted criminal) is a tall order but I have decided to tackle

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How To Become A High-Value Individual

This is a story that you want to read. Stories teach us about life, about ourselves, and about others. There are two ways to learn valuable life lessons that will teach us to become a little bit smarter and wiser. The first method is through trial, error, and personal experience and the second metho

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If ...

Many people consider the poem “If” written in 1895 by the British writer Rudyard Kipling to be one of the most inspirational poems ever written. The poem provides advice on how one should live one’s life with restraint, moderation, and composure. Kipling’s poem is addressed to his son to help him un

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Fairy Wisdom

Today I am taking you on an adventure to Fairyland to be sprinkled with fairy wisdom. Once there was a competition to know who was the smartest fairy in Fairyland . The Water Fairy, the Green Fairy, and the Frost Fairy were going to compete. The three competing fairies had to answer 3 questions. The

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Long Story Short - Episode 4 - We Are All Explorers

We all have in mind a romanticized idea of what explorers look like i.e., a Marco Polo, a Christopher Colombus or a Ferdinand Magellan surely fit that explorer stereotype. We should also include Hollywood characters such as Indiana Jones and Lara Croft in that list. Those explorers and adventurers a

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Long Story Short - Episode 3 - Be Like Water

Bruce Lee’s legacy as a martial artist, movie star, and deep thinker remains very much alive today; there is so much we can learn from him, still. There was a point during his training when Bruce Lee became frustrated with his lack of progress. He was working hard but didn’t see any improvement. His

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Long Story Short - Episode 1- The Year Of The Tiger

This is the first of a series of blog articles where I will take a "fresh" look at "old" pieces that I published in the past, keeping it short and sweet. The main idea is to highlight the key concept or lesson that I shared, getting straight to the point and giving you food for thought. Long story s

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The Mind is like a Horse. Learn How to Ride It

“The essential joy of being with horses is that it brings us in contact with the rare elements of grace, beauty, spirit and freedom.” Sharon Ralls Lemon. It has been said that the mind is like a horse, we should learn how to ride it. Horses are always ready to share an adventure with you, they stand

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How to Become More Compelling

People have the ambition to become rich and famous to become an influencer, the truth is the majority of us will have to be content with a less ambitious but more obtainable goal of being happy and content with what we have whilst exercising some kind of positive influence within our community. Inst

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How to Get Your Message Across. Words Matter.

From the time we get up till the time we go to bed, we communicate our wants, desires, fear, worry, anxiety to all the people around us. We should learn how to get our message across, because words matter. Words provide the basis for human connection, they matter a great deal. Although we have alway

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The 7 Most Important Lessons I Learned This Year

It is customary during this time of the year to reflect on our achievements and take stock of what we learned. In this article, I would like to share with you the seven most important lessons I learned this year. 2021 is getting to a close. Thank goodness for that. We survived another year living in

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Life Is a Battlefield.

Life is a battlefield. Nothing is easy, we have to fight our way through everything, and with this, in mind, it would be a good idea for us to familiarize ourselves with combat strategy and learn the best tricks in the book from trained warriors. In military strategy, before combat units are sent to

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Wake up, Dress up, Show up and Do Your Thing

Today (18th October), I wake-up, dress, and show up to celebrate my birthday. Happy birthday also to Russell, my dear husband we are sharing the same birthday. I have been on this earth for a few decades, and I am grateful for every single morning when I got to wake up and do my thing. My loyal read

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Honey, Don't Follow the Crowd. They Are Lost.

Everyone on social media is looking to gain more followers on their social media platform. I say, stop following the crowd. They are lost. In order to stay sane, our brains create the illusion that all our thoughts are completely rational and independent. But, no matter how independent-minded you th

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Don't Put a Label on Me!

Don’t Put a Label on Me. Don’t put me into a box and stick a label on it before you even get the chance to know me. I am not the same person I was when I was 20, 30, 40 years old. I am the sum total of my genetics, my upbringing, but also the books I read, the countries I traveled to, the ups and do

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How Can We Find Hope Amid Uncertainty and Conflict?

Whether we think about it or not, Hope is part of everyone’s life. How can we find Hope ? Everyone hopes for something. We are living in an age of despair and fractured communities where we are being forced to alienate ourselves from our family, friends, colleagues, and clients. The world currently

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metamorphosis - How does one become a butterfly?

Metamorphosis. How does one become a butterfly? The butterfly has one of the most fascinating life cycles of all creatures. It starts its life as an egg perched on a leaf. When the egg finally hatches, a caterpillar emerges from the egg. The whole raison d’être of the caterpillar is to eat as much a

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Back home

I have always had great difficulties answering the question “Where are you from?” This seemingly innocuous question always throws me back a little because I don’t have a simple answer to give to that question without having to explain my whole life story including giving an impromptu geography lesso

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How much is enough?

How much is enough? We often want more than we have now. More money, more gadgets, better furniture, a better house, a better car, more clothes, more shoes, more success. We live in a consumer culture, where our needs, want and desire can be satisfied very easily. We don’t even have to get out of be

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when the going gets tough, be tougher

We are living in uncertain times, there hasn’t been a time like this in recent memory. People are feeling worried, anxious, scared, and helpless. Human beings are fragile animals, but we are also resilient rational beings with foresight, discernment, and the ability to survive, and even thrive, when

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Essential Life Lessons. Me, Myself and I.

There are many essential life lessons that we know but forgot. Practicing stillness is one of them. You may be one of those people who are feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the well-intended advice that is flowing freely on all social media platforms. There is an abundance of therapists, dieticians,

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the truth is, you don't know what you don't know

The truth, is we don’t know what we don’t know. We don’t even know the questions we need to ask in order to find out because we are so stuck in our narrow-minded way of doing things. “The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of conf

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do what 99% of people don't do. manage your energy wisely

Do What 99% of people don’t do. Learn to manage your energy wisely. We all have a finite amount of energy to spend. We all know this, but somehow, we act as if we have an unlimited supply of energy to waste. Each day we use the energy we have, we invest it in people and things that surround us until

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we are all explorers

We all have in mind a romanticized idea of what explorers look like i.e., a Marco Polo, a Christopher Colombus, or a Ferdinand Magellan surely fit that explorer stereotype. We should also include in that list Hollywood characters such as Indiana Jones and Lara Croft. Those explorers and adventurers

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should you hire a life coach or mentor?

Should you hire a life coach or mentor? Not everyone needs a coach nor wants one. If you are struggling with some unresolved issue and have a problem to resolve, you can just enter a search on the internet and you will find, in no time at all a book, a YouTube video, an article, a blog, or an online

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do you have a scarcity mindset or a plenty mindset?

There are two types of people in this world: the scarcity type and the plenty type. Do you have a scarcity mindset or a plenty mindset? If you are one of those who are constantly worried that there will not be enough of anything; enough money, enough time, enough food, enough of … well, you fill in

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Transformation and Growth. How Does One Become a Butterfly?

Transformation and growth. How does one become a butterfly? “Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly”. If one of your New Year resolutions is to pursue transformation and growth in order to become the best version of yourself, I invite you to study the life of a b

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Why You Should Never Let a Good Crisis Go To Waste

Why you should never let a good crisis go to waste Your mission, should you decide to accept it, is to never let a good crisis go to waste. This article is my attempt to offer you some pointers on how to do just that. Life is a journey, sometimes the road is nice and pleasant and other times it is r

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Self-Help Books Can Become Bestsellers, But Do They Actually Work?

The self-help book market is worth over $10 billion dollars per year in the USA alone with twice as many books sold in 2019 than just 7 years earlier. With an ever-growing flock of followers who want clear answers to their questions, clear solutions to their problems and clear paths to follow along the road to a happy and successful life.

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A Book Like No Other - Book Reviews

Book reviews make books a known quantity, they save readers time, prepare them for what they will find and offer them a greater chance of connecting with a particular book, even before they read the first page! They also make their authors very happy

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A Compass to a Meaningful Life

For a writer, book reviews can open doors to new and bigger audiences; writers know it, readers know it, publishers know it. What people are saying about your book can be a huge factor in its success, and you must know how to spot a good review when you see it. 'A compass to a meaningful life' is ju

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